Nope, and
here’s why….
I have no
scientific proof or carefully compiled data that shows the more the entirety of
the human race is forced to interact the greater the odds are that we can and
will ALL get along eventually. On the flip side, I also have no scientific
proof or carefully compiled data that shows the more the entirety of the human
race is allowed to do their own damn thing, believe their own damn beliefs and
go their own damn way the greater the odds are that all conflict will end.
All I have
is my own sinking suspicion that the current social media climate of
#peaceandlove, #letsallloveoneanother and #inclusionorbust is fueled more by a
pseudo news industry that wants to stay relevant and funded into retirement
than it is by truly loving people that really do want to buy the world a Coke
and a smile. (P.S., I underline certain phrases
to make it clear this it is my opinion and a mix of satire because, ya know,
people get hung up on “literally” everything!)
Don’t get me
wrong! I wish, wish, wish it was a
simple matter of heart over profit and people really could all get along
forever and ever but I’m realistic. Pain sells just like turmoil and rancor do
so, if all was well with the world then what would CNN or Fox News or even pharmaceutical
companies, for that matter, do? The 24/7 news cycle-need to self-diagnose addiction
must be fed! Just another brick in the “them against us/us against them” wall
that has existed inside all of us since birth.
Here is some
light reading on the topic for the sake of clarity and comparison: http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2013/11/why-we-fightand-can-we-stop/309525/
Frustrating
right? It’s like the desire to cram the world into one of those horrid “Get
Along” shirts is purposely being trumped (see what I did there?) by not only
our DNA but also the junkie-like need to continue highlighting the bad with a
few little snippets of good in order to justify turning journalists and
politicians into celebrities. The punching still goes on underneath that
confining shirt, despite the faked smiles of contrition shown to Mom and Dad PC
but, by golly, it’s still a ratings getter! And, it just may be hardwired into
our human brains to stick with our own and work against those “unlike” us, but
we won’t acknowledge that part will we?
My simple-minded
approach is, instead of pretending to get along with everyone around us locally
and globally we simply get on, super productively, with our own lives? Go,
live, laugh, do your thing and don’t mess with another person’s thing…or do, if
they are cool with it of course but, ask first! When we focus on making our own
life the best it can be and less on forcing others to believe the way we do
then real growth may actually happen. Less judgment, more accountability and
more minding your own damn business. Join the circle! Let’s all sing!
So, why CAN’T
we all get along? Is it really too much
to ask that differing people form a common bond, hold hands, sing together and
be at peace? No, it isn’t too much to ask it just can’t always happen because
of our freak-science makeup and nor should it, scientifically and
simplistically speaking.
Dissent,
disagreement and defiance make up the delightful alliteration that holds
together this crazy world, just as it works to tear it apart. Lunacy right?
Without differing styles, talents, mannerisms and temperaments, passion would
die. If there is no passion left, no heated debates or fiery monologues then
what’s the point? Friction creates energy right? And energy fuels passion,
which in turn prompts creativity. No creativity = No Life. Understand?
And, just to
be clear here, I am NOT talking about being cool with dangerous ideologues.
That is NOT what this is about at all so don’t be jumping 500 steps ahead into
the land of misinformed conclusions. I don’t want to see any comments like, “Oh,
so you are saying I should just go about my business while terrorists roam the
earth?” No doomsday prepper, if you are
the one adding those words to my dialogue then no, that isn’t what I said, it’s
what you wish I had said just so you can start an argument. Psychological projection
is a sad condition, look it up, there is help available. I still accept you
though, even if I won’t be inviting you over for dinner. See how that works? I
forgive you because you were just acting on a trait handed down to you from
your ancestors.
Anyway, I
often hear the easily frustrated say flippant things like, “I wish everyone was
just like me and then the world would be a better place.” Would it really? I adore people who are
vastly different from me and the thought of being trapped in a room, or world,
full of other easily distracted, and concentration challenged people just like
me would be soul-smothering.
I get some
of my best ideas from watching and listening to people from very different
backgrounds. It’s research along with
free entertainment! Besides, if, by some
bizarre stroke of happenstance, we wake up some morning and everyone looks and
acts alike my best guess would be that in short order some contrived grievance
would be created to get conflict growing again. Ain’t no party like a grudge
building party!
In
conclusion, can we all get along? Maybe, but the real question for me is, do
we really want to? Human beings live to promote and support their own well-being and we are programmed to see threats to our way of life around every corner. Granted,
there aren’t any Smilodon (that’s a sabretooth tiger folks) but maybe, just
maybe, the new threats, those advertised and promoted by the new Media Smilodon,
are now painted on our modern cave walls (television) to instill fear and
foster control just like was done in 38,000 BCE.
Science is a
real bitch huh? For those that believe
in it anyway. If you don’t then carry on….this cave painting isn’t for you.
Peace!
© 2016-2017 Laura A. Askew, All Rights Reserved
As a gentle reminder: People who steal the creative property
of others deserve to be kicked in the tingly bits by a pissed off
writer well versed in street fighting.
In plain English: Don't steal my stuff!
As a gentle reminder: People who steal the creative property
of others deserve to be kicked in the tingly bits by a pissed off
writer well versed in street fighting.
In plain English: Don't steal my stuff!